{"id":10889,"date":"2009-02-19T18:17:47","date_gmt":"2009-02-19T16:17:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.curaj.net\/?p=10889"},"modified":"2009-02-19T22:03:18","modified_gmt":"2009-02-19T20:03:18","slug":"fugim-cu-totii-dar-de-ce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/?p=10889","title":{"rendered":"Fugim cu to\u0163ii, dar de ce?!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Ora 16.13, o universitate ca oricare.\u00a0 Avem un ochi \u00een orar, iar lec\u0163ia de dup\u0103 acesta trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 la 16.40.\u00a0 Asta e, am ocazia s\u0103 mai discut cu colegii, cine \u015ftie ce aflu de la ei. Unde \u00eemi aud o coleg\u0103: \u201cM\u0103i, hai s\u0103 fugim\u201d. Din ga\u015fca care a auzit propunerea asta super-tentant\u0103 trei \u00ee\u015fi dau deja acordul, pe al\u0163ii doi \u00eei tr\u0103deaz\u0103 limbajul non-verbal c\u0103 exact la asta se g\u00e2ndeau.<\/p>\n

– Sofia, fugim?<\/p>\n

– Nu. Adic\u0103, voi, dac\u0103 vre\u0163i, fugi\u0163i, eu r\u0103m\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

R\u0103spunsul a nemul\u0163umit-o pe fata care a \u00eentrebat, care s-a \u015fi \u00eentors ostentativ cu spatele. Ceilal\u0163i tac.<\/p>\n

– Hai, m\u0103i, de ce nu vrei?<\/p>\n

Sofia a fost uimit\u0103 s\u0103 aud\u0103 \u00eentrebarea asta, pentru c\u0103 r\u0103spunsul i se p\u0103rea firesc. Venise la ore, vroia s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la ore, iar lec\u0163ia care \u00eencepea la 16.40 chiar i se p\u0103rea foarte interesant\u0103.\u00a0 Avea motive s\u0103 nu fug\u0103.\u00a0 \u015ei nu avea nici un motiv s\u0103 fug\u0103.<\/p>\n

– Dar tu de ce vrei s\u0103 fugi?<\/p>\n

Fata a fost uimit\u0103 s\u0103 aud\u0103 \u00eentrebarea asta, pentru c\u0103 r\u0103spuns\u2026 nu avea. A zis doar un \u201ceei..\u201d (a se citi \u201cdai \u015fi tu ni\u015fte \u00eentreb\u0103ri!\u201d).<\/p>\n

U\u015for de \u00een\u0163eles atunci c\u0103 e pur \u015fi simplu un trend, c\u0103 studen\u0163ii \u0103\u015ftia se bucurau s\u0103 fug\u0103 de profi, sim\u0163ind c\u0103 \u00eei p\u0103c\u0103lesc \u00een modul \u0103sta. Nu, nu e vorba de spirit rebel, ci de fapt social.<\/p>\n

\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, era cool \u00een clasele primare, poate \u015fi gimnaziale s\u0103 fugi de la ore. Chiar sim\u0163eai c\u0103 tu ai luat o decizie, c\u0103 po\u0163i \u015fi tu s\u0103 faci ceva, liber de ordinele profesorilor, dirigintei\u2026 S\u0103 vin\u0103 de acolo tendin\u0163a asta semi-con\u015ftient\u0103 a studen\u0163ilor? Dar e revolt\u0103tor c\u0103 g\u00e2ndirea, rela\u0163ia cu mediul de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt le-a r\u0103mas aceea\u015fi. Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 rela\u0163ia cu profesorii e una de subordonare, c\u0103 studen\u0163ii \u00een loc s\u0103 regleze altfel acest fapt, \u00eenloc s\u0103 pun\u0103 accent pe personalitatea \u015fi drepturile lor, opteaz\u0103 pentru cea mai simpl\u0103 \u015fi neg\u00e2ndit\u0103 solu\u0163ie – s\u0103 fugim.<\/p>\n

\u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, e interesant c\u0103 din moment ce Sofia nu acceptat s\u0103 fug\u0103, nu a mai fugit nimeni. Ha? Studen\u0163ii aveau printre ei doi oameni cu p\u0103reri diferite, iar ei nu f\u0103ceau dec\u00e2t s\u0103 adere ba la \u201cmi\u015fcarea\u201d unuia, ba la a celuilalt. La \u00eentrebarea \u201cTu de ce vrei s\u0103 fugi?\u201d, cineva a r\u0103spuns \u201cDa eu nu fug\u2026\u201d. Oho! Dac\u0103 fug to\u0163i, el nici nu crede c\u0103 EL fuge. Lumea fuge, nu el.<\/p>\n

P.S.: \u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 dezvol\u0163i economia de pia\u0163\u0103 \u015fi antreprenoriatul \u00eentr-o astfel de societate ; )<\/p>\n