{"id":6068,"date":"2008-11-10T19:48:06","date_gmt":"2008-11-10T16:48:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.curaj.net\/?p=6068"},"modified":"2008-11-10T23:09:17","modified_gmt":"2008-11-10T20:09:17","slug":"femeie-casatorita-cu-un-homosexual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/?p=6068","title":{"rendered":"Femeie c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 cu un homosexual"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"normal;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Doamna Parascovia, \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 de patruzeci \u015fi unu de ani, originar\u0103 din satul Coste\u015fti, raionul Ialoveni, mam\u0103 a trei copii \u015fi fost\u0103 so\u0163ie a unui b\u0103rbat care la \u00eenceput a pretins c\u0103 o iube\u015fte, dar dup\u0103 cincisprezece ani de c\u0103snicie, dup\u0103 lungi zile \u015fi ani de asuprire ea a descoperit c\u0103 so\u0163ul ei este homosexual<\/span><\/span><\/span><!--more--><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">La \u00eenceput&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">S-au cunoscut \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor, Filip av\u00e2nd 20 ani \u015fi Parascovia 18. Parascovia l-a \u00eendr\u0103git foarte mult, dar nu acelea\u015fi sentimente a avut \u015fi el fa\u0163\u0103 de ea. Totu\u015fi, ea a crezut c\u0103 este iubit\u0103 \u015fi spera la o via\u0163\u0103 fericit\u0103 cu el, c\u0103 vor face cas\u0103, vor avea copii \u015fi vor fi \u00eemplini\u0163i. A venit \u015fi ziua mult a\u015fteptat\u0103 a c\u0103s\u0103toriei, dup\u0103 care a urmat calvarul timp de 17 ani. Dup\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103torie, so\u0163ul Parascoviei nu a avut atrac\u0163ie fa\u0163\u0103 ea \u015fi prima noapte de dragoste a avut loc peste o lun\u0103, \u00een urma insisten\u0163ei Parascoviei ca el s\u0103 ia ni\u015fte medicamente, c\u0103ci presupunea c\u0103 este bolnav. La \u00eenceput mama ei o sf\u0103tuia s\u0103 divor\u0163eze pentru c\u0103 nu are rost s\u0103 tr\u0103ieasc\u0103 \u00een felul acesta, f\u0103r\u0103 copii \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 afec\u0163iune din partea partenerului. Parascovia nu asculta aceste sfaturi, ci repeta mereu, \u201cmam\u0103 fie cum o fi, dar eu \u00eel iubesc mult\u201d. Acea noapte de draogoste a fost unica \u00een cinci ani de c\u0103snicie. Dup\u0103 aceia ea a r\u0103mas \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103 \u015fi a n\u0103scut un b\u0103iat. Pe parcursul acelor ani, ea mereu \u00eel \u00eentreba ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu el, poate a r\u0103cit, poate are o boal\u0103 \u015fi \u00eel ruga s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la medic pentru a face o investiga\u0163ie. El totdeauna a r\u0103spuns negativ la aceast\u0103 propunere. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\"><strong>Zile de calvar<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\">\u201c<span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Filip se ducea vineri seara \u015fi venea luni diminea\u0163a acas\u0103. C\u00e2nd se \u00eentorcea era beat, m\u0103 insulta, \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 sunt o curv\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc numai la rela\u0163ii sexuale\u201d, m\u0103rturise\u015fte Parascovia. La auzul acestor cuvinte, ea s-a \u00eenchis \u00een sine, \u00eei era ru\u015fine de vecini, de prieteni \u015fi de p\u0103rin\u0163i. Auzind desele lui insulte care afectau \u00een primul r\u00e2nd copilul, ea se l\u0103sa p\u0103guba\u015f\u0103, alegea s\u0103 tac\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-i intre totdeauna \u00een voie, doar \u00een schimbul a unui singur lucru, s\u0103 fie lini\u015fte \u00een cas\u0103. Dar lini\u015fte tot nu era. C\u00e2nd vecinii \u015fi prietenii o vedeau cu v\u00e2n\u0103t\u0103i \u015fi o \u00eentrebau ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, ea mereu repeta, c\u0103 s-a lovit de cote\u0163ul g\u0103inilor, c\u0103 a c\u0103zut jos, c\u0103 vaca a lovit-o cu cornul \u015fi tot a\u015fa de fiecare dat\u0103. Totdeauna a ascuns faptele so\u0163ului ei, pentru c\u0103 \u00eel iubea \u015fi spera c\u0103 o s\u0103 se schimbe. \u00cen anii care au urmat a mai n\u0103scut dou\u0103 fete, dar \u015fi acestea doar printr-o singur\u0103 atingere c\u00e2nd so\u0163ul ei era beat. B\u0103t\u0103ile \u015fi certurile au devenit din ce \u00een ce mai dese, copiii erau totdeauna stresa\u0163i. Parascovia dormea \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103, totdeauna gata s\u0103 fug\u0103 c\u00e2nd el va veni acas\u0103 \u015fi va \u00eencerca s\u0103 o bat\u0103. Din cauza multor b\u0103t\u0103i \u015fi chinuri, Parascovia a \u00eenceput s\u0103 bea, \u015fi unica ei dorin\u0163\u0103 era s\u0103 moar\u0103. So\u0163ul \u00ee\u015fi b\u0103tea joc \u00een orice mod posibil, iar ea fugea iarna cu picioarele goale pe z\u0103pad\u0103 s\u0103 se ascund\u0103 de el. De multe ori a fost nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 doarm\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 cu copiii \u00eentr-o ma\u015fin\u0103 cu paie din apropierea casei lor. Parascovia \u015fi-a revenit din st\u0103rile de be\u0163ie \u015fi depresie c\u00e2nd a \u00eenceput s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 Biblia. Dar c\u00e2nd ea la \u00eendemnat \u015fi pe so\u0163ul ei s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 Biblia, el s-a inervat \u015fi mai tare \u015fi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 o bat\u0103 cu Biblia \u00een cap. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\"><strong>Descoperirea practicii homosexuale<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Era toamn\u0103 t\u00e2rzie. \u00centr-o zi so\u0163ul o anun\u0163ase pe Parascovia c\u0103 va \u00eennopta un prieten de-al lui \u00een casa lor. Ea a preg\u0103tit m\u00e2ncare \u015fi o camer\u0103 unde avea s\u0103 doarm\u0103 oaspetele. C\u00e2nd a ajuns so\u0163ul cu prietenul lui, era deja t\u00e2rziu \u015fi to\u0163i dormeau, \u00een afar\u0103 de Parascovia care st\u0103tea \u00een pat, dar asculta vorbele lor. C\u00e2nd au mers la culcare, s-au culcat ambii \u00een aceia\u015fi camer\u0103. \u201cNici prin cap nu mi-a trecut ce era la mijloc\u201d, spune Parascovia. Diminea\u0163a Parascovia \u00eel vede pe b\u0103iatul lor de cincisprezece ani foarte sup\u0103rat \u015fi agitat. C\u00e2nd ea l-a \u00eentrebat ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, el cu lacrimi \u00een ochi i-a spus c\u0103 nu mai dore\u015fte s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 \u00een casa lor \u015fi nu-l mai nume\u015fte tat\u0103. Nici atunci ea nu \u015fi-a dat seama. B\u0103iatul i-a spus s\u0103 se uite pe geamul camerei unde dormea tat\u0103l s\u0103u. C\u00e2nd ea s-a uitat pe geam a r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 grai, a\u015fa zisa \u201cdragoste\u201d a celor doi era \u00een toi. Ei au observat-o \u015fi repede s-au acoperit cu o plapum\u0103. Peste c\u00e2teva clipe ei au ie\u015fit afar\u0103, iar ea fa\u0163\u0103 de prietenul so\u0163ului s\u0103i, i-a spus c\u0103 dore\u015fte divor\u0163ul. \u201cC\u00e2t de mult l-am iubit, \u00een clipa aceea de zece ori mai mult \u00eel uram. Mie \u00eemi era greu m\u0103car s\u0103 m\u0103 uit la el\u201d, spune Parascovia. Dup\u0103 aceasta el a \u00eenceput s\u0103 aib\u0103 o ur\u0103 foarte mare fa\u0163\u0103 de b\u0103iat. C\u00e2nd era beat, b\u0103iatul nu dormea acas\u0103, era totdeauna fugar. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Pu\u0163in timp dup\u0103 aceea Parascovia a plecat la munc\u0103 \u00een Israel pentru a face ceva bani, apoi s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103 \u00eenapoi s\u0103 ia copiii \u015fi s\u0103 plece pentru a-\u015fi reface via\u0163a. B\u0103iatul Parascoviei m\u0103rturise\u015fte c\u0103 ceea ce a v\u0103zut el \u015fi mam\u0103-sa \u00een acea zi, a fost o nimica toat\u0103 \u00een compara\u0163ie cu lucrurile sc\u00e2rboase ce le-a v\u0103zut dup\u0103 plecarea ei \u00een Israel. Parascovia spune, c\u0103 abea acum \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 problema aceasta nu este numai a ei, ci a multor familii din Moldova, ale c\u0103ror victim\u0103 este fiecare care face parte din acea familie. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\"><strong>Reg\u0103sirea fericirii&#8230;.<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Dup\u0103 un timp lung de chinuri, Parascovia a divor\u0163at de fostul so\u0163 \u015fi \u00een sf\u00e2r\u015fit este fericit\u0103. A \u00eent\u00e2lnit un b\u0103rbat simplu, dar cu suflet mare, care o iube\u015fte \u015fi este gata s\u0103 ia sub \u00eengrijirea lui to\u0163i trei copii. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Parascovia a \u00eencheiat povestirea istoriei vie\u0163ii ei cu lacrimi \u00een ochi, dar acestea nu mai erau lacrimi de chin, ci de bucurie. Ochii ei erau plini de speran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi ardoare pentru un nou \u00eenceput. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\" lang=\"en-US\"><span style=\"#000000;\"><span style=\"Bitstream Vera Sans,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"small;\">Citind aceast\u0103 istorie, s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m pe noi \u00een\u015fine, este bine s\u0103 permitem aprobarea legii nediscriminare cu sintagma \u201corientare sexual\u0103\u201d prin care le va oferi homosexualilor drepturi ce dep\u0103\u015fesc Constitu\u0163ia \u0163\u0103rii?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"0cm;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Doamna Parascovia, \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 de patruzeci \u015fi unu de ani, originar\u0103 din satul Coste\u015fti, raionul Ialoveni, mam\u0103 a trei copii \u015fi fost\u0103 so\u0163ie a unui b\u0103rbat care la \u00eenceput a pretins c\u0103 o iube\u015fte, dar dup\u0103 cincisprezece ani de c\u0103snicie, dup\u0103 lungi zile \u015fi ani de asuprire ea a descoperit c\u0103 so\u0163ul ei este homosexual<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2183,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7,3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6068"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2183"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6068"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6068\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6090,"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6068\/revisions\/6090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6068"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6068"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sergiubrega.com\/curajnet\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6068"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}